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Happy Friday! This was a totally weird week and I've got a busy weekend ahead. Anyone else? I'll write more about this later, but I'm officially a member of the work from home party! If you've got tips for working remotely, I'm all ears. I've got big plans to get my workspace set up this weekend (finally, with the help of my parents!) so hopefully I'll be able to share a few tidbits of that soon. In the meantime, it's about time for some links!

♥ I've never met a jumpsuit that wanted anything to do with my body, but Priya is making me want to give them all a try anyway.

♥ Is anyone else struggling to find the heart in humanity lately? This project helped me remember (and, you know, cry a bunch).

♥ I totally agree with Kimi about gravitating towards separates this summer. How cute is her easy navy and white outfit?

♥ One of my favorite songs played (on butter tubs) by two of my favorite ladies.

♥ "Instead of losing weight I just lost the clothes I hated" - holy shit this writer's experience is basically my exact story!

♥ What was the most popular food the year you were born? Mine was Tiramisu!

♥ Rachel took the most ballin' Euro trip this summer and made a clever video recaping the experience. Your 13 minute vacation is right this way...

♥ Speaking of travel, I loved reading Jess' thoughts on setting road trip expectations after she and her guy (and their pugs!) took a cross-country excursion.

♥ Killuh '70s outfit inspiration from the always fabulous Julie.

♥ Do you ever rock a headscarf? Excited to try these two ways soon!

♥ A pastel wishlist: these perfect blue clogs, these periwinkle statement earrings, a romantic blush trench, this slouchy ivory blazer, and these petal pink block heels.

What are you up to this weekend?

link love

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top: Lush // shorts: H&M (similar one, similar two) // sandals: Saltwater Sandals // purse: Nordstrom (exact is sold out; similar) // earrings: Gudbling // bracelets: Alex and Ani, The Gypsy Fawn // sunglasses: Forever 21 (similar)


A few weeks ago, someone on Twitter asked me if I would do a post on styling the fancy cotton shorts everyone's selling this summer. I was like "nah, that's not really my style," and went on with my midi skirt-wearing life. Then, I randomly popped into H&M with Chels and Steph and decided it wouldn't hurt to try on some shorts. I ended up with these in three colors, and then there were the fancy cotton shorts I brought to try on just for fun. Do you ever do that? Grab something that's way out of your comfort zone, just to see what happens?

Well, what happened was magic. I stepped out of the dressing room, reluctantly asking my girlfriends for their opinions. It was like a burst of heart eye emojis filled the dimly-lit dressing room. For $24, I'd stumbled upon the Holy Grail of fancy cotton shorts.

So, how do you style fancy cotton shorts? A loose tank (I love the way this polyester Lush blouse looks tucked in!), a pair of cute-but-casual sandals, and a handful of cool girl accessories (read: two different kinds of tassels and a mini arm party).

Does it feel like I'm wearing pjs? Absolutely. Does it look like it? I'll let you be the judge of that.

fancy summer pjs

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shirt: Old Navy // skirt: c/o ModCloth // espadrilles: Soludos c/o Shopbop // purse: Forever 21


As you might expect, this is a post I've waffled on writing for some time now. Deciding to call myself a body positive blogger put me in an interesting position because the buzzword can mean something a little different to everyone. Am I body positive if I don't always love what I see in the mirror? Am I body positive if I dress to accentuate my favorite parts rather than my less-than-favorites? Am I body positive if I sometimes slip into shapewear before I put on the rest of my clothes?

After gradually gaining weight for the last few years (read about my eating disorder recovery here), this is the first summer I've had to deal with the dreaded chub rub in a real way. It's no secret that I have an affinity for skirts and dresses, and I started this season feeling helpless to the summer heat rubbing between my thighs. A new-to-me style dilemma, but one that many women have faced since the beginning of time. I set out to find a solution. I started researching shorts to wear beneath my favorite dresses and skirts. Something that wouldn't ride up, something that would provide coverage for my soft thighs and maybe for my soft tummy too. I read reviews of Jockey Skimmies, Bandelettes, and more. I ended up at Nordstrom and walked right up to the Spanx and I found my solution: Thinstincts Mid Thigh Shorts. This post isn't sponsored by Spanx, so I'm not going to spend too much time selling them to you, but they make me feel like my thighs are made of air and I legitimately forget I'm wearing them. Plus, they have "targeted" tummy "control" that smooths what I sometimes wish looked smoother. Can I be body positive and wear targeted smoothing technology? 

Immediately, I started wearing every skirt I own every day of the week. I got excited to get dressed again. I put together some of my favorite outfits of all time, and I loved how they looked on me, not just in theory. Am I body positive because I didn't let my body keep me from wearing what I wanted?

Of all the weights and pants sizes I've gone through in the past few years, I can confidently say that I'm happiest in my current body. Sure, it's the most I've weighed and the highest number on a tag I've worn, but I don't spend the time I used to picking apart my body for what it wasn't. I've happily accepted the body I'm in. Now I get to focus on the fun of dressing it.

Wearing Spanx doesn't make me not a size 10. I think that's an important point here. I'm not wearing them to look a different size, or to take up less space. I'm wearing them to feel more comfortable -- physically, because chub rub is real y'all! -- and to take the focus actually off of my body. Not having to feel the burning of my thighs rubbing during my lunch break walks means I have more capacity to feel all the other things I experience: twirling in my pretty skirt, enjoying the trees and sunshine, having uninterrupted conversations with my friends.

I'm body positive, I wear Spanx, and I'm a happier me since deciding on both.

What are your thoughts on shapewear and body positivity?

To reiterate: this post is not sponsored by Spanx and all opinions are, always, my own!

on being body positive and wearing spanx

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top: Old Navy // skirt: Forever 21 (similar) // purse: Ann Taylor // shoes Sam Edelman c/o Shopbop // necklace: Old Navy (similar)


I know there are a lot of reasons not to shop at Forever 21 -- ethics, for one; being a few years older than 21, for another -- but once in a while you find something of such quality and cuteness that you wear again and again. If I'm going to shop there, I better at least wear the heck out of what I buy, am I right?

I picked up this skirt last October on accident -- I needed something to try on with a crop top -- and now it's a total closet MVP. The colors lend themselves to a variety of styling options and transcend seasons. Don't believe me? I've already shown you how I wore it in the fall and spring (whoops, somehow didn't blog a winter outfit even though I def wore it with tights!), and now I've got a summer outfit that I maybe love the most.

black floral forever 21 midi skirt  
Since discovering that this skirt looks killer with bright colors (thanks to my Ann Taylor purse), I actually have another warm weather look I want to try (hint: it involves my favorite top). Hopefully that will probably be hitting the blog before the summer is up!

How would you style this skirt? Does it feel like a particular season more than the others to you?

skirting the seasons

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