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shirt: Madewell // jeans: American Eagle // shoes: J.Crew Factory (on sale!) // backpack: c/o ESPEROS // earrings: Larissa Loden

By the time I was a junior in high school, I had pretty much decided I was going to be a writer. For the first time, I felt like I finally found what I was good at, and it was time for me to show everyone else. I took that confidence into my AP English course taught by Mrs. Bradley, who was renowned throughout the school for being a bit of a hard-ass when it came to grading. On the first day of class, Mrs. Bradley explained that she simply did not give a grade of 100%. That is, unless, as she put it, she "heard angels sing." Challenge accepted, Mrs. Bradley.

Our first assignment was to write about ourselves. I guess you could say I was pretty good at it, because guess who was the only student to receive 100%? I will never forget the big red score at the top of those two stapled pages. For the remainder of the year, I was flying on a high that made me work harder and push myself to write better. I shared class with the future valedictorian and salutatorian of my year, whose presence I took as extra encouragement to score as high as possible on each assignment. I may not have been in the top 10% of students in my grade, but I was one of the best writers, and that was enough for me.

It's fun to think back on where Writes Like a Girl began as a flicker in me throughout my education. It sounds silly or exaggerated, but my college experience as an English major and my career as a writer may not have been possible without those moments in high school with educators who saw a light in me. Before I found my "thing," I didn't think I was any good at school. It took a few teachers believing in me and showing me my worth to ignite that fire within.

ESPEROS, the makers of this little backpack (that I'm totally obsessed with), recognizes the importance of lighting that flame early in a child's education. Through the sales of their stylish and high-quality bags, ESPEROS is dedicated to making education available to children experiencing a cycle of poverty. Cute-as-heck bags and a mission to promote education? That's something worth investing in.

If you've seen me around Austin in the month of April, then you've seen me toting around ESPEROS' Petite Pack, AKA the best bag I've ever owned. I realized recently that my crossbody bags were causing me to slouch, so I extra love that my little backpack lets me stand up straight and not have to adjust a clunky purse while I'm out and about. Get ready to see this bag all spring and summer long because it goes with everything and is way too comfortable to stop taking everywhere I go!

Do you have all the heart eyes for ESPEROS? Use code WRITESLIKEAGIRL for 15% off your order through May 31!

Tell me about your favorite teacher growing up whose influence had a little something to do with who or where you are now!

*While I did receive an ESPEROS backpack in exchange for this post, all opinions (and high school stories) are my own!

bell sleeves and backpacks

Oh hey, I guess I haven't posted a budget update in a while! The main reason is because these posts are extremely time consuming and I decided I'd rather put that energy towards the Feel Good, Dress Better workbook (which I am SO SO SO close to being done with!!!). The other reason? Not so cute. 2017 has been hard on me and my family, y'all. And when things are hard, I shop and I spend. I've been to two funerals already in 2017 and have spent way too many hours visiting my loved ones in the hospital. Some weeks, having a package coming in the mail felt like the only thing I had to look forward to.

I love that sharing these budget updates keep me accountable, but they can also suck for that same reason. I didn't need extra guilt for my overspending during the last few months on top of the other bad feelings. Do you forgive me? Okay cool, because I bought some real cute stuff this month and one of my monthly small goals helped keep me from going (too) overboard!

What I Bought

what i bought april
Madewell Side Button Midi Skirt - $98
Madewell Striped Bell-Sleeve Top - $69.50
J.Crew Factory Leather Mule Slides - $41.50
ASOS Denim Smock Dress - $37

Total Spent: $246

Total Earned on Poshmark: $142.57

Budget Spent: $103.43 (out of monthly $250) = $146.57 under budget

Since you haven't seen any of these things on the blog yet (literally coming this week!), I'll go more into depth here about each item.

The Midi Skirt - When 2017 started, I was like, "Nicole. Stop buying midi skirts. You have so many and don't wear them very often." Well. I saw this one online, and then it was right there in Nordstrom when I was trying on the bell-sleeve shirt (what I actually went in for), so I grabbed it just to try on for fun. Y'all. It was perfect. You may have seen that I Insta-storied that shopping trip, and the DMs came rolling in from so many people who loved it as much as I did! I would blame this all on peer pressure, but it really came down to the skirt. One of the issues I've noticed in my closet is a pattern overload. So many of my midi skirts are too loud for me to reach for on a regular basis. This is somehow the only solid-colored midi skirt I own, which seems to have solved all my skirt-wearing woes because I just want to wear this every day with every top I've got. Now I just have to convince myself not to buy the chambray and gingham print versions of the same skirt! For reference, I got a size 12.

The Bell-Sleeve Top - As I mentioned, this top was the reason for my only in-store shopping trip this month. The shopping bug bit me on a lovely Friday afternoon, so I decided to go to the mall after work. I've been searching for the perfect bell-sleeve top for a few months and thought this Madewell one might be The One after seeing it online. I was right! It fits exactly how I wanted and I've already worn it three times since buying it. For reference, I bought a medium.

The Leather Slides - I have had my eye on this particular pair of shoes since...January? They looked like the perfect shoes for running to the mailbox or taking the trash out (because apparently real flats with backs are too hard to put on??). I kept hoping they'd go on sale (which, of course they are now...), but finally pulled the trigger when I was in Houston for Dago's mom's surgery earlier this month. I'm glad I did because I've been wearing them a lot and they make me really happy. What more can you ask for in a pair of shoes? For reference, I sized up to an 8 in these because I notice in slides and mules that my heel hangs off the back when wearing my usual 7.

The Denim Dress - Did I need another denim dress? Absolutely. Nine times out of ten when I'm getting dressed, I want to put this dress on. Because that isn't really a reasonable ratio, I decided to add another denim dress with a slightly different fit (see: not so oversized) to my closet. **This dress is actually arriving in the mail today, so we'll see if it actually fits/if I end up keeping it. I usually wouldn't include it in my budget yet, but being as next month is my birthday(!!!), I wanted to save as much of May's budget to be spent in the actual month.

What I Received

what i received april

As always, I want to be transparent about the items I receive as part of sponsorship or collaboration for the blog. I had been saving up credits as a part of my Shopbop partnership to be able to shop this month's great sale and I'm so happy about what I got! I actually tried on the Madewell pom pom top during my Nordstrom trip, but realized that Shopbop had it in stock so I waited to buy it. I think it'll be such a fun top to wear with cutoffs this summer! The clogs have been on love list for a while, so I was glad they didn't sell out in my size before the sale! They are crazy comfy -- like maybe my most comfortable pair of clogs yet. The English Factory blouse was a last minute addition to my cart, but probably my favorite item I got during the sale because it's so versatile! I wore it under this dress the other day, which is now my favorite way to wear it. Outfit coming to the blog soon!

I'm so excited to be partnering with ESPEROS this month. I've lusted after their chic leather goods for a while, and now I can't stop wearing their Petite Pack! I'll save my gushing over this bag for the upcoming blog post, but definitely browse their selection and follow their Insta because everything is to die for.

So that's what I bought in April! I'm glad to be back to linking up with Fran and the budgeting bloggers (and the have my budget/life hopefully back on track!). What did you buy in April?

what i bought in april

mules and slides for spring
This week in "trends I never thought would come back, much less shop if they did," I'm lusting after all the cute pairs of mules I'm seeing all over the place! While you'll still never catch me in a stretchy black pair (ironic clothing isn't my style), I am pretty smitten with the slip-on-and-go style of the season.

I actually bought these a couple of weeks ago after having them on my wishlist for over a month. I was waiting for them to go on a little better sale, but was worried they'd sell out (that happens to me ALL the time). Since they were exactly what I was looking for, I went ahead and bought them, and now of course they're on sale. So, you should go buy them on sale!

I'd really like to have a fun-colored heeled pair as a summer alternative to my blush block heels, but I'm having trouble picking a pair! Obvi I'm leaning towards a pretty blush or punchy coral color because, duh it's me. How fun is the H&M pair with those scallops? And the low heel? I may need to put in an online order ASAP...

Anyway, which pair is your favorite? How are you feeling about this comeback trend?

on my list | mules & slides

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dress: vintage via Reverie Vintage // jacket: BB Dakota c/o Shopbop // shoes: Madewell c/o Shopbop // purse: vintage

Being the editor of a wedding blog by day, you'd think I'd be sick of weddings by the weekend. If you know me at all, you know that is the furthest thing from the truth! I could (and sometimes do) talk and think weddings all day, every day. Having three beautiful weddings to attend this spring has been a total dream. I'll never tire of being a wedding guest, especially when it's some of my dearest friends saying "I do" to spending the rest of their lives with their soulmates. And yes, I cry every single time.

Does it surprise you to know that I've had my wedding guest outfits picked out since the beginning of 2017? It probably shouldn't! In year's past, I've worn by Valentine's dress to weddings for the rest of the year. I did recreate this outfit for a wedding in February, but there was a major overlap in guest list for another wedding in March, so I decided to switch things up.

This look has everything I love in a wedding guest outfit. As excited as you are to see your gal pal in her wedding gown, she's stoked to see you get all dressed up for her day too! Unless there's a color-coordinated dress code (someone invite me to one of these please!), I typically like to wear a pop of color. Looking at wedding photos all day as I do, I love seeing a little color in the crowd! Plus, I find that I don't have a lot of excuses throughout the year to wear my fancier dresses, so I take full advantage of the opportunity and rock my favorite frock. This vintage dress is one of my most-loved buys from the last couple of years and I was so excited to take it out for a spin!

Because weddings are typically a pretty big time commitment, I choose my accessories carefully. I always bring some sort of sweater or jacket. On a spring evening in March or April, it's likely to get pretty cool, and this leather jacket was the perfect thing to throw on for chitchat outside and walking back to the car. You'll never catch me in a steep heel at a wedding (or ever, if we're being honest) because I want to dance the night away with the newlyweds in comfort! My block heel obsession is justified again! Throw in a matching vintage clutch that's big enough to hold my phone and a few tissues for my inevitable tears, and the look is wedding ready.

Do you have a go-to wedding guest outfit? What are you wearing to weddings this spring?

my spring wedding outfit

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